u think i am walking around the house with a blanket around my shoulders because i cold but in actuality it is my cloak and i am on an adventure
10 things that took me a while to realize
1. you should never, under any circumstances, change who you are for someone. you have spent your entire life becoming who you are and to let someone change that, would be throwing away every little thing you have created or earned for yourself. if someone does not like something about you, take the opportunity to show them you do not care if they want you to change for them. be proud of who you are and who you want to be. 2. no matter what, your true friends are always going to be there for you. even if they do not agree with your current situations, they are going to support you 100% because they care for you more than you can imagine. your true friends are the people who you can call crying at 3 am and they will get out of bed and come get you for icecream. do you really need anyone else other than these types of people? no. 3. my mother is my best friend. I’ve never been so close to someone and she has shown me that she loves me so much it hurts. you need to find someone who values you this much. when you have someone like this, you will have an easier time dealing with the things life is going to throw at you. because trust me, life itself is a bitch. 4. do not let stupid and/or immature people bring you down. you will always be an independent person and giving these people the time of day is not worth it. trust me. 5. focus on your self before you focus on anyone else. you do not need anyone to make yourself happy. a good friend of mine taught me I need to love myself before I can try to love anyone else. depending on someone else for my happiness will only leave me broken in the end. take some time to learn about yourself and how you can be happy on your own. after you have taken the time to do this, you are ready to let someone else make you happy on top of it. 6. I promise you, at some point in high school, someone is going to break your trust. and may even break your heart on top of it. someone breaking your trust for the first time is one of the hardest things you will go through. once that initial trust is broken, you will always question them. do not let things like this go. it is okay to be scared people like this are going to break your trust again, because they probably will. do not give them the opportunity to do this. they will take advantage of you. 7. no matter how much you want to refrain from admitting this, you are vulnerable. and people will try to wrap you around their fingers. you are going to meet people who try to manipulate you. and they will. it sucks, and it makes you cry, but those tears will go away. those people, on the other hand, will not. you have to learn how to build a wall around yourself to block these people out. 8. sometimes you’re going to need to take a day for yourself. if it’s a school day, that is okay. you can makeup your work. during this day, take a bath. read a book. listen to your favorite songs. emotionally, you need this. it is therapy for yourself. 9. do not be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. you will be amazed the amount of lifelong friends you will make. 10. you are going to make someone proud. put everything you have into yourself and the people around you. emotion is good. emotion shows you are alive. do not ever take being emotional for granted.
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